• I am looking to find a woman who either conned me out of $20 in Grand
    Central Station or legitamately lost my address. We talked for four
    hours. Her name was Cass Fitz. She said she was from Westport, CT.
    She was co owner of a renovation comapny called DGSL Interior Designs
    International. I can't find any reference of her. SHe has a large
    mole on her right cheek and her left ear looks like someone once
    ripped an earring out of it. Can you find this woman?


  • I have found no reference to either a business by that name or a person by that name. If you loaned money to this individual, it may be that you've been taken for twenty bucks.


  • The "game" is still being played on Grand Central?! And people are still falling for it. I once did 40 years ago. I look at the matter philosophically, ditto for buying a magazine subscription at the house door: it is something one has to fall for every few years, and like a vacine it makes you resistant for a while. ;)


  • Maybe that's why she got her ear ripped before, LOL.
    Sorry! bad joke.


  • I suppose it would be worth $20 to have one's faith in human nature restored. I really hope that this 'Cass Fitz' person lost your address and that your generosity helped her and that you'll continue to help other people in true need (note, I say 'true'). It would be difficult to accept that someone who'd been talking to you for 4 hours would spend so much time on a pathetic scam, just for $20. You might never know her story, there might be all sorts of reasons why she never got back to you, but you know what? You know you did a kind thing and you're a better person for having done it. Let it go and don't begrudge it and you'll be all the happier for it.


  • When you 'help out' a stranger, always write off the debt.

    Probably you were conned, but 20 bucks for a 4 hour trick is a bit of a time waster.
    Console yourself that she was either an amateur or genuine
    - in either case you made her day
    - which is no bad thing for both of you


  • I would hate to cross you. I don't get it. Why are you spending $20 to get $20 back? In the end you still are out $20 if you find her.
    Cass Fitz, aka, the ripped ear mole faced train station bandit